Sunday, February 28, 2010

The Perfect Gift

I've been meaning, every day, to write a quick post to let you'uns know that my blogging may be a bit sporadic over the next little bit.

I have taken a new contract gig that has me pretty busy from now until nearly the end of the year. It's a brand new project for me, so I've spent the last week desperately trying to get up to speed and nailing down my roles/responsibilities.

The good news is I have work until the end of the year. The bad news is I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed at the moment and am likely to remain this way until the project comes to an end!

I miss writing AND reading everyone's blogs. My Google Reader said I have nearly 1,000 posts to catch up on. That knowledge simply added to my feelings of being behind the eight ball, so I simply shut Google Reader down. If I can't see it, it's not real, right?

This new gig is not only a great business opportunity for me, but after it comes to an end, April and I are going to focus on starting our family. We've talked about it non stop for three years and if we don't do something soon, we'll look like the kid's grandparents before it graduates kindergarten.

We are researching adoption avenues right now and are keeping our fingers crossed we might have a new addition to the family next year! We are considering open adoption which moves at a quicker clip than closed adoptions. I also haven't given up on wanting to have a child myself.

Knowing that this new job might be stressful, April did a very April thing...

I traveled to Atlanta last week and as I was unpacking my suitcase, I found a wrapped gift and a small card.

The card read:

"I love you so much and miss you. When things get rough or you feel overwhelmed, just remember what's next for us..."

I opened the gift.

A book of children's bedtime stories.

With an inscription from Apes:

"To the best mommy-to-be."

How can you not love her?

9 comments:

PurestGreen said...

Utterly, fantastically sweet. Best of luck on the adoption!

Jenny said...

I am so happy for you two! I get to be an AUNT!!! About time!!! Give us a call when you are in Atlanta. We really should all like to catch up with you. Cassie asks about you a lot!

Solo Homo said...

Congrats! To both of you.

Cara Pope said...

Oh, that made me tear up. Best of luck to you, you will make WONDERFUL parents!!!

elderberry222 said...

oh, heath! what a sweet writing. you two WILL be the best mommies ever! i got chills as i read this. i miss you!! congrats on your new work for the year.

pat all the animals' heads for me (how many do you have??)

love!!!
jules

Ang said...

I teared up reading this. Congrats on the new project. There is no doubt in my mind that you and Apes will be the best mommies ever. How sweet of Apes to do that. Congrats...I wish you all the best of luck as these new doors continue to open.

Dragon said...

That is awesome you two want to start a family! You two will be amazing moms!

Awwww So freaking sweet of Apes!

Lil' Jak said...

Congrats, and good luck! Wishing you all the best for your new job!...and the adoption! You'll have to let us know how it goes (pitfalls, and all) - give us here in NZ some hope that one day it can be us!
(just found out, due to Civil Union, we cannot adopt anywhere in the world as yet....had we done so PRIOR to 'marriage' - different story!)

So happy for you both!

Miss Scarlett said...

aaaand im crying.

shit.